We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever dream of a new beginning in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it's like from three households who in fact made the leap.
Who hasn't imagined dumping city life and transferring to the nation? Perhaps you have actually spent weekend vacations browsing the regional property listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summer town in Maine. I started photographing these individuals and interviewing them about their accomplishments and obstacles in transitioning to country living. The project took flight immediately-- plainly I wasn't the only one believing about escaping the city.

Do not take it from me. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a new beginning.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can find out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Country.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers found a wacky house in the Berkshires at a 3rd the cost of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what the majority of New york city families would think about a dream situation-- a three-bedroom cage house in a preferable Brooklyn community. It sufficed space for their household of 5, with no concern of a rent walking. To pay for living in the city, though, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was just able to create his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, an innovative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a check out and started dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired concept," remembers Shawn. "On what I thought was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with a terrific little school," says Shawn.

Relocated to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a village in the nation was a good answer for us," states Kenzie. We live throughout from a rushing creek, which is reassuring.

Rather of continuing to strive to further the careers of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art company. Offering up their steady city incomes while handling the expenses of winter season heating and caring for an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't think of returning to the confined boundaries of city living.

Entering their house resembles strolling into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a normal day, their child, Honey, might welcome you in the yard with a pet rabbit, their son Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other child Odie might provide to perform a magic trick. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their home into a relaxing, wacky wonderland.

The kids have far more flexibility to explore now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their house and volunteering at the library down the street. And they've all noticed, states Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mother died, people we didn't know well left entire meals on our patio."

They like the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. However that's just the start. "Playing charades with our next-door neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, city center meetings. Our friends down the roadway invite individuals over to sing conventional music every Sunday night, actually standing around the piano after dinner."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the quiet he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a tiny Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's 2nd inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What many people don't know is that, recalling, he's unsure he would have had the ability to write the poem if he hadn't been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived most of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his spare time when his partner, Mark, got a task that needed the couple to relocate to the tiny ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little apprehensive at first, he was excited at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

Being the child of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had concerned San Antonio as an infant, Richard has always longed to discover a location where he belongs. A primary style in his writing is what it requires to make a place feel like house. And he now understands that residing in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I've constantly desired to transfer to the country," he says. "I constantly had a destination to it, specifically considering that I went back to Cuba to visit in my teenagers. Most of my family is from backwoods in Cuba, and I felt really in your home there."

Transferred to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this little town would receive them, but they have been happily amazed. St Louis has actually welcomed "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a highly regarded member of the neighborhood and-- considering that the inauguration-- a town celeb.

However it's been a change. "After that honeymoon phase, the very first thing that began to nag on me was having to drive everywhere," states Richard. And shopping is tricky: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, however I can't get inkjet cartridges or underclothing." To his surprise, he also missed going out: "Often you simply wish to dress up and feel wonderful-- and there is no place to do his comment is here that. I have actually outgrown all my suits living here." He also misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their entire life, and you know their children, where they grew up ... and they understand whatever about you. It's beautiful, but occasionally Mark and I will want to go out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of battling the aspects, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," states Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After moving to the nation, Richard initially continued to work remotely on contract engineering jobs, but the less expensive cost of living in Maine permitted him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And since 2013, he's been able to work almost totally as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind.

He offers the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And possibly more notably, it has actually finally given him a place that seems like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service difficulty turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years earlier, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and ran 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker area, a floral designer shop and a play space for young children, just to call a couple of. All this in addition to raising four ladies under the age of six. They valued their busy, complete lives but worried that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their children a skewed viewpoint on the world.

This led them to a new prospective endeavor-- running an animals ranch that could supply meat to their restaurant. The residential or commercial property had 2 homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate requirement of repair work and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They leapt in and bought the residential or commercial property in 2013, hoping to one day discover a method to move to the cattle ranch full time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' initial strategy was to employ ranchers to run business. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the ladies might spend time running totally free in the outdoors. "We always had a desire to raise our kids in large open areas in a more rural community," states Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land one day. After showing up every weekend for a couple of months and finding a gem of a community here, we rapidly decided this was where we wanted to raise our kids. We sold our companies and went up the day our oldest child completed kindergarten and have been all-in since."

After four years of difficult work, the Duggers have developed an effective pasture-raised meat organisation. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they released 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host females at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes.

There are no weekends or vacations off, however they invest far more time together as a family now, working alongside one another. The Duggers do not have the benefits, tidy clothing or complimentary time they had in their previous life, and have actually had to become more self-sufficient: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. "But in the country, I have actually needed to adjust my expectations. Everything moves a bit more gradually, but living on a cattle ranch suggests you can develop anything you can imagine yourself, which is more satisfying than working with someone to do it."

Another benefit is seeing their girls grow into fearless, diligent and independent free-range females. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front porch to watch their daughters run free in the yard.

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